Life is a precious gift from god which we generally not live fully; pondering over little things ignoring the happiness and contentment within us and in smallest things happening in our lives on daily basis... I will unfold the beauty of these things through my eyes and my pen.....bringing rays of hope, love and laughter in your world!!!!

Saturday, 16 May 2015

Lets de-stress mommies...Go the Parachute way

As mothers, we ladies are beautiful gift from god who are so lively, abundant, giving and find solace in giving more than receiving and still we are left with so much love, care, persistence, tolerance and sane-sense till the end of eternity and are never short of goodness that nature has given us. Loving and giving are our second nature, we keep on giving love, care and sacrifices to the beautiful relationships we have in our lives which are our only treasure. We can't see any loved one in pain or grim, we sort out the biggest matter in our hands and dive in to unknown territories to save and protect our relations, We are extreme givers and the queens of emotional empires. We run an entire home on our petite and fragile shoulders but don't even sigh!!!!!!! We fight with the world and even the most powerful almighty has bowed to our endeavors as Sati fought with god to bring back life in to her dead husband. We are lovers, givers, friends, creators, believers, achievers and what not????? If a woman has to be defined in a word even by Albert Einstein,
the scientist would rather prefer to turn a sage than answering the question as its too complicated and rather interesting as well.......in the coming years, i would suggest a new subject of thesis to the R&D department:- role of woman in this world and i am pretty sure the findings of this peculiar subject would take the entire world by storm. The fact that we are on the second place in the list of creators after god; makes us more worthy and awe-inspiring ........isn't it? We are multi-taskers, emotionally robust, physically sound and spiritually inclined, Who else can dare to multi task as us!!!!! We are the best gift to mankind and why not....we create the world as a mother and we destroy the world as goddess Durga too!!!!!! We start our days with love and finish it off with bed-time stories. In between we juggle with our house duties, office worries, grossory-lists,kids's PTM's, spouse's irrational behaviour, in-laws demands, spa's and parlour's rush visits, cranky kids and their king-size homework schedules, unexpected visitors N guests, special food demands, long kitchen standing hours, sometimes eruptions like pimples and under-eye dark circles, half-slept syndrome, scolding from anywhere <3 (((((((((READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES))))))))))) forgetful behaviour and by god's grace.....WHAT NOT??????????? We are the one who's doing many things even when doing nothing. We keep worrying as to what will be cooked tomorrow for breakfast, lunch and dinner, we worry if the kids's uniform has been washed and ironed, we wonder if the mother-in-law is upset with us for sleeping late on Sunday, we ponder if the alarm will go on time in the morning, we worry if the child is fully prepared for tomorrow's exam and will score good, we analyze if the hubby is in good mood to talk about the daughter's demand of new mobile or son's demand of new video game, we worry what to gift sister-in-law when she visits in summer vacation or the return gifts for the kids's birthday party, We overcook our minds to wonder if the electricity bill, LPG bill, Internet bill, phone bill are due some time and has to be paid, we take care of every individual associated with us. We are cleaner, cook, dry cleaner, helper, teacher, plumber, driver and basically captain of ship which will surely doom if we are not alert and expert. Husband wants our expert advice for his official issues, kids want us to guide them in studies and about their age problems and inquiries, in-laws wants us to help them in their social circles, relatives wants us to rescue them from any problem they are facing so ultimately a mother is a super-woman handling so many relationships in a go that she ceases to remain individual. She's just like sugar which dissolves in every relationship, looses her identity but her sweet taste keeps reminding us that she's with us all the time. Though god has given us a strong heart and undaunted will to deal with all this uninterrupted day after day apart from beautiful faces and irreplaceable hearts but as ladies, we tend to overstretch ourselves by giving too much but receiving less on the other hand.....We keep on giving endlessly will it takes a toll on our physical and mental health......NO NO No....don't take me wrong.....i am not a feminist who's suggesting you to leave all this to save your health and vigor but to take it easy with yourself and sail smoothly.....Your life is not an exam for which you are practicing endlessly and you are not gonna get marks (You can't please everyone at the same time too) 

 ....Din't you listen to that song...EK TK MANAO TO DOOJA ROOTH JAATA HAI...SHEESHA HO YA DIL HO AKHIR TOOT JAATA HAI....One should take ME-TIME periodically to relax and rejuvenate and most  importantly, analyze and overview yourself:-

a. Am i fulfilling my purpose of being existent?
b. Am i at all existent and living?
c. Do i sometimes live and behave as i want to?
d. How often i indulge in my favorite activity (singing, painting, cooking, writing, watching movie)?
e. Do i fear to rise through the challenge of being a complete woman so i work 24X7?
f. Am i able to please everyone by working as per them?
g. Am i happy and content or just surrendered to the circumstances?
h. Is this my sole purpose of coming to this earth?

 HOLA!!!!!!!! they may seem to be simple questions but the answers for everybody are quite complex with many labeling me as a intruder in their peaceful lives. While on the surface level there is peace and serenity but the answers are sure to shake you up from your long buried dreams.....Mothers are the most stressed out but they seem to remain neutral and don't show their fatigue to us until some major health problem crops up or we seriously take them for granted and always see them smiling. Mothers have this special ability to hide their pains by flashing a 1000 watt smile and we forget that she's human being too who should be cared and pampered too.As a woman, she should clearly enjoy the luxury of being a mother which means to speak clearly what she feels inside, act what she feels is right not as per society's wishes, being able to love and live freely, to indulge in ice-cream licking it without feeling guilty about calories gulped, to be unapologetic about her public behavior, to be comfortable in her own skin, to be comfortable with her body weight and body type, to not care any random view or comment spoiling her day or mood, to wear what she feels sexy and comfortable about, to eat sleep read as and whenever she wants to, to wake up early and see Sun rising, to sleep late counting stars, to introspect herself for her failures and insecurities, to relive her moments of passion and love, to accept her failures and to boast about her achievements and most importantly pamper herself with Parachute Advansed Aromatherapy oil massage  as the 

massage with the essential oils will not only rejuvenate her 

but will also ensure to take her in to her own world and prepare her for the upcoming fights with life and circumstances <3 <3  

.......to do all what is prohibited and called insane in this world.  I am Proud to be a woman for endless reasons and so you should also be...... I am more mature than men though I look innocent, I am more capable to hit the roof again after I hit bottom, I am mentally and emotionally more stronger than men, I have the powers to make or break anything (ladies,please read in-between lines) , I am a multi tasking personality and can work under excessive pressure and doesn't boil easily, I can lure a man and can make him a saint or a criminal, I can handle pressure too cool-ly, , I can wear a dress, a mini, a jumpsuit, a shorts, a suit Sal war , a jeans and what not....I can feel what it takes and feels to create another creature inside you, I can feel the movements and kicks inside my tummy, I can give give birth from a two inch hole, I can negotiate a deal with ease, I can get seat in a crowded bus too easily, I can fly an aeroplane or go to a NASA mission, I can run a family, I can nurture complete world...do I need to say more.....

These all things which i wrote about are my personal experiences as my mom has never been able to share with me for her lack of expression so i wanna give her a royal treatment and a lovely massage with #Parachute Advansed Aromatherapy oil massage occasionally so that she slows down a bit for herself only and feel her pure existence within <3 <3 

I’m blogging about why my mother needs to de-stress with a Parachute Advansed Aromatherapy Oil massage for the #StressFreeMom activity at BlogAdda.

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1 comment:

  1. Hey nice blog! You may want to mix in Castor Oil with the oil you use for massage. It deeply moisturizes and conditions hair, adding strength and vibrancies thereby promoting healthy hair growth and prevents hair fall.