In India, we are too fond of two things, food and
giving advises!!!! Though food is in our pulse rate but advice has also been in
our life-line since ages. If our fathers and forefathers don’t give enough
advises in a day, their food doesn’t get digested and they have to eat some
digestive powders or candies to get the process done. The advises has formed
such a big chunk of our lives that we can simply calculate the number of hours
spent in a year are passed giving advises. We are lending it to our friends,
our peer groups, our cousins, our younger siblings etc. Our fathers are lending
it to every known and acquaintance, every relative, every friend, every kid and
every teenager; our grandma passing it on to her daughters and
daughter-in-laws, our parents passing it to their immediate kids and their peer
group…ooophhhh!!!!!!! An unasked n unsolicited world of ADVICES!!!!!
Now the question arises is that why it has been a
favorite hobby, pastime or temptation area for almost everyone in our society,
what makes it everyone’s favorite and to-do-thing when we are left with nothing
to do and why it’s so therapeutic and have serious light weight effect on our
body and mind that we seriously wonder as if we have become feather light after
getting advises out of our mouth)))))))))) Have you ever felt so light and
refreshing after giving advice to somebody else….have you ever felt that all
the toxins that you have collected in the food process and in your breathing
process are leaving your body altogether after giving a piece of advice to
whosoever whether he wants it or not….whether he needed it or not…Lets find out
first why we are so fond of giving advises to others:-
A)
We have seen our fathers, forefathers,
mothers, grandmothers and every other member in our household since childhood
that we have unknowingly added it to our moral rights.
B)
We Indians are so soft hearted and
always want to do goodness of others and don’t want anything bad to happen to
them.
C)
If a person is sounding or looking
dull and is lacking interest in even his/her day to day activities, we
automatically assume that the other person is in dire need of some advise
D)
We have this tendency to poke our noses
and dive into unknown and restricted territories of others’ personal life that
we keep on insisting the other to share his problem areas and find a clue to
just start showers of advises.
E)
We believe ourselves to be the subject
matter expert and also believe that working on your advice, the other person is
gonna benefited abundantly and will
subsequently get rid of his problems.
F)
We are so observant of our
surroundings that we have seen many people with the same problem coming up with
the same solution as you advised is gonna solve the recent problem.
G) We
have become much experts after getting endless number of advises from our
grandparents, parents, teachers, relatives, acquaintances and even unknown
people that we want to relish the same cooling effect which comes after giving
advises to someone else.
H)
We feel that the toxins, resentment
and ill-will which have gathered in our bodies since childhood will release and
the strong desire to revolt will simply become a vacuum.
I)
We believe that it is our birth-right
to do this and we are serving mankind by this sheer act of selfless service and
are helping our Indian brothers and sisters.
J)
We feel a certain burden from our cumbersome
heads is thrown off as we never tend to listen the advises from anyone and never
bothered to give them a second for consideration.
K)
We feel that we are a good human being
and good citizens of India to be handling the people’s sentiments with love and
care.
L)
We feel that this way we are
contributing to our national development and character building of our country
and doing a Mother Teresa Work without any greed and long term incentives.
Though this is a humorous take on why we love to
giving advice, I will be back with a serious version of it too very soon…till
then….keep giving advises. Happy advising@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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